I want to write about this topic for a long time but it was difficult for me to write it down because 1) don't want to offend anyone 2) want to make sure I am not critizing anyone (same as don't want to offend anyone). 
Since I was a teenager, I thought about not having my own kids but to adopt. My theory was very simple. One child=a social responsibility. Since there are so many unwanted children=many social responsiblities, why would I want to create additional social responsibitlies? Therefore, if I adopt one child, I will relieve one social responsibilty. If I adopt two, I will relieve two.
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暑假要到了,紛紛聽到朋友計劃帶小孩回台灣見爺爺奶奶,叔叔阿姨,伯伯嬸嬸,或是朋友。有些相互邀約ㄧ起旅行,有些打聽要準備哪些法寶來鎮住在飛行中可能會不受控制的小人們。大家心裡非常緊張,為的是不讓自己小孩成為他人口中的死小孩。
我從18歲開始旅行,從單身貴族到手抱嬰兒的媽媽,在旅程中所看到的形形色色也算不少。從上飛機開始敷臉(錯誤示範)到背不下ㄧ袋安撫小孩的瓶罐,食物,玩具,心中的想法年年變。
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前陣子在台灣鬧的熱熱沸沸的學生 v.s. 部長的大戰,讓我感觸不少。
對於兩面的爭論,我很努力的找資料,想要了解前因後果。
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「舊時謂統治者為迫害知識份子,故意從其著作中摘取字句,羅織成罪」 ~ 《漢語大詞典》
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有點想太多,有點灰心,有點想放棄。交友這件事真那麼複雜嗎?
跟著感覺走,感覺不對了是不是不要繼續走下去呢?
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最近看了番紅花的一篇有關離婚的文章 http://www.wretch.cc/blog/bachbug/836335 不禁想小吐苦水一下。
她文中的朋友因為再嫁,且是嫁一個非台灣人,承受了一些議論。
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People who want to give me gifts must think that I am demanding.
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Hastily said good bye to some friends on Plurk and then immediately closed my account because I know if I didn't act quickly, I wouldn't be able to stop myself from fighting back on Plurk.
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My sister and I talked about what I wrote in my previous blog.
It was hard to look at them again.
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