Hastily said good bye to some friends on Plurk and then immediately closed my account because I know if I didn't act quickly, I wouldn't be able to stop myself from fighting back on Plurk.
Fighting is the last thing I want to do when I make on-line friends. So many things can go wrong during the conversation and so many words can be twisted and mis-interpreted on line.
I like to say I am Switzerland and I truly don't like to take sides. I try not to criticize others because I believe everyone has his or her own reasons and merit. I choose to be someone's friends or not based on whether we click or not. I don't go on other people's blogs or plurk to attack because I respect the host or hostess.
And I usually don't talk about politics because I think people get carried away most of time just like me. But that is OK. As long as you don't attack me, I don't attack you.
And if I don't fight back is not because I am afraid of you or being a coward. I just don't want to add more negativity and it is not worth for me to be in a war.
Therefore, I quit plurking and I decided to come back to my blog where I can concentrate on good writing and stay away from gossiping.
I don't think I am a saint nor will be able to stay clean. So I chose another way...stay away.
I still miss some friends who I encountered on Plurk. I truly enjoy talking to them. But if they like my writing, they will find me. And if they like my writing, we will continue our friendship here; not only happier but also stronger.
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